50 Universal Truths About Men

1. Why should I remind you that “I love you?” I already told you once.
   
   
2. I’ll do anything for sex; even commit to you for life.
   
   
3. I hate arguing with you. I’d much rather find a compromise.
   
   
4. I love long hair. Sorry, but I do.
   
   
5. When you speak softly, I can’t help but listen.
   
   
6. I need to be told “no” sometimes. Not a lot, but every now and again reminds me that you are expensive.
   
   
7. Please don’t ask me how you look unless you’re willing to trust my answer. 
   
   
8. My eyes notice other women a lot more when you are upset with me.
   
   
9. When you’re happy with me I can’t help but want to please you.
   
   
10. If I don’t feel I can make you happy, it makes me feel less than a man.
    
    
11. I expect you to be ready when I pick you up.
    
    
12. Cigarettes make any woman look cheap and easy.
    
    
13. I'm scared if I let a woman inside my heart, she'll take advantage of me.
    
    
14. If you can’t stand up to me when I’m a brat, you’re too weak for me to open up to when I’m upset.
    
    
15. Sitting quietly next to me after you’ve made me a meal is your get-out-of-the-doghouse-free ticket. You’ll be surprised how quickly I can forgive.
    
    
16. You did something hurtful. If I never bring it up, I’m considering leaving you.
    
    
17. I don’t read minds. Remember, I’m not a woman.  
    
    
18. You may know fashion, but I wish you’d dress to please me, not other women.  
    
    
19. If I’m losing my hair, it’s not funny. Would you like me to joke about your weight?
    
    
20. When I talk to you about golf and you act bored, it would be nice for you to remember all the times I’ve listened to you talk about what is important to you.                   
    
    
21. The woman I love is easy to please. She appreciates the effort I put into making her happy, even if I get the details wrong.
    
    
22. You look hot in a dress.
    
    
23. I hate being told what to do when I don't ask for help. It makes me feel like you're my mother.
    
    
24. If you sleep over, I might eventually marry you, but I'm less motivated.
    
    
25. During sex my ears are as sensitive to your words as your skin is to my touch. 
26. I need some type of signal or cue to walk across the room and approach you. What if you’re married!?
    
27. It makes me feel like you trust me when you ask for my advice.
    
28. It feels competitive when you insist on being in charge.
    
29. Being respected is more important to me that being loved.
    
30. I want every man to envy me when we arrive as a couple. Please don’t let yourself go.
    
31. When I’m upset I am very tone sensitive. How you say it is more important than what you say.
    
32. I hate it when you minimize, ignore or tell me I don’t mean my compliments. It makes me want to stop giving them.
    
33. I’m more insecure than you think. Why do you think I need your respect so much?
    
34. I don’t always know how I feel. That’s why I don’t tell you.
    
35. I don’t need you to do things for me. What I crave is being able to please you.
    
36. If I do one thing and say something contradictory – go with my actions – that will always tell you what’s in my heart.
    
37. I find myself wanting to please you when you simply smile at me without asking for something (like a favor).
    
38. I really don’t want to hear about any of your ex-boyfriends, regardless of the point.
    
39. If I don’t share what I’m thinking, it’s because I don’t think you will listen without interrupting.
    
40. I don’t like to argue and I don’t like to guess what’s wrong. Just tell me so I can fix it.
    
41. I love it when you put your hair in a pony tail. Yes, it’s a Freudian thing. 
    
42. Don’t ask me, “Are you going to wear that?” when I’m already dressed.
    
43. A gentleman should always be respected by his lady in public, even if she is disagreeing with him.
    
44. If you don’t believe you’re pretty, you won’t believe me when I tell you, no matter how many times I say it. 
    
45. It isn’t how much you weigh, it’s that your body is proportionate, which is so attractive.  
    
46. Sometimes I have weird, strange or very sexual thoughts. I don’t take them seriously and I don’t want to share them with you (or anyone).  
    
47. Sometimes you really don’t want to know what I’m thinking. See above.
    
48. If you cheat on me, it is nearly impossible for me to get over it.
    
49. I don’t remember everything about our relationship but that doesn’t mean I don’t love you.
    
50. I need some time to myself to calm down when I’m upset so that I don’t say something I will regret.  
    

As I go through all kinds of feelings and experiences in my journey through life -- delight, surprise, chagrin, dismay -- I hold this question as a guiding light: "What do I really need right now to be happy?" What I come to over and over again is that only qualities as vast and deep as love, connection and kindness will really make me happy in any sort of enduring way.

have been bed ridden for a week n trust mi its nt something you woud like to go through. hd a canula in ma hand for five days n it was painful still massaging ma hands coz they hurt.....

new look

have been wanting to cut ma hair for a while now and i finally did n i must admit i look great..... 

as promised

birthday pics

nicee

nyc smile


happy thursday people and dont forget its coctail thursday

musings of a lover

some days he frustrates me with his colouring of issues in his quest for clarity, his fears keep me awake at night, and my fear for him, about him, make even the brightest days dull til the difference between day and night ceases to exist

hangover

ok this has got to be the longest hangover i have ever had. it has lasted from thursday til monday kudos to the shots and my party people....... will upload the photos later

23 today

hmmmmmmmmmm....planning on partying hard this weekend with my mates.... guess we all got alot to celebrate.........xoxoxo

traditional engagement ceremony

my brother's traditional engagement ceremony was this year in jan and it was lovely and really colourfully.....

lovely

so has i already said Saturday was my cousin's traditional engagement party...tek a glimpise at these pics

one day to go

tomorrow is the d day and am not psyched up which is unusual because i always look forward to ma birthday could it be aging that's getting to me.... yet i am a 22yr old gal who looks 18 weird. guess its coz the old man aint around may be will be on Friday when he gets back.in the mean time let mi feast on the pre-birthday cake he left behind....he really does know how to apologize for not being around on my birthday

brunno mars was made for the ladies

every time i listen to a Bruno mars song ma heart melts because he has so much passion in his voice has he sings the words.....his gal friend is the luckiest gal in the world. today am listening to marry you don't think can ever get tired of this song atleast that's one song to ma list of wedding songs yeahhhh.....xxxx

gifts

thursday is my birthday and for some reason people are wishing me a happy birthdays and giving me birthday gifts in advance or are  they pre-birthday gifts puzzling i know.... so friday my boyfriend surprised me with an Aldo bag  so when  i told him thanx he said it was the 1st of many gifts to come cool unha. cant wait for the rest....

monday again

its monday so am back to office but cant stop thinking of how wonderful ma weekend was. i think i just needed a long weekend to get mi back on track atleast woke up today looking forward to the day. i attended ma cousin's traditional engagement ceremony on saturday and boy was it lovely.... to top it all after went partying with my boyfriend and a couple of friends and yes it was a night to remember. spent ma sunday in bed watching movies the whole day and night something i hadn't done in along time

mum and baby

today morning i saw a beautiful one year old baby boy who was all happy and playing with his mom. i couldn't help it but want ma own, i thought of what it must feel like looking at your own child if someone felt this much joy just looking at someone's baby.... guess five years ain't that far so will hold on till then........

dads back

dads back and am so excited like a love struck teenager....or better still like a boy who has got a new toy and cant wait to show it off to all his new friends.  i even woke up early un like usual just to have breakfast with him and indeed it was a great breakfast.......

out of the ordinary

hmmmm.....had a long lunch with ma boyfriend and it was relaxing,lovely and refreshing. think i needed it now am back at work and wishing i had stayed with him funny how from having a bad day it quickly turned into having a good one......xoxo

vaccation

i wake everyday and everyday i ask myself wats so great about today and guess wat i cant think of anything that makes me want to get out of bed which makes me think i need a vaccation to freshen up

mother in law

so today is my mother in laws birthday and mu boyfriend wants me to go over and wish her a happy birthday in person but we don't have alot to talk about mi and her thou we get along. its just so weird sitting with her and talking about the same usual staff home,family,work and to top it all not sure what to get her